Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

I just did a quiz on myspace about "your year in reveiw" and as I did it I relized something about this past year, it seems, looking back, like it has beenthe longest year of my life. It doesn't feel like this last january I was still in high school, and one of my friends that I have known for the longest time was still alive (i dwell on the past ab it). And as I look back on this year, for the majority, it sucked, it really really did. I don't have a girl friend (ladies I'm single), I don't have one person that I would really consider a "best" friend (pathetic I know). And I don't know how to remedy these 2 things on my own, want to hang out with people out side of classes but I don't want to seem to pushy to get to hang out with them, and same with women. I dont know how to be subtle in either cases

My question is: how do you get out there, and ask people if you can hang out with them or come along, without seeming too needy or too clingy or too desparate?(Which I always seem 2 be)

Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

You aren't pathetic! Plenty of people have this problem. Just relax and be yourself. Find people that you are comfortable with and everything will fall into place. Ask God for help! Good luck. God bless!

Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

Find a hobby a sport or just study and make lots of money and buy Friends.

Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

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Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

maybe u should do something that people will remember u by

Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

there was an article in yahoo news about how to meet people and ladies recently.

Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

try joining a sport and hanging out with them or if u have a girl u like ask her to hang sometime and if u want to hang out with guys just call or text em and ask em what their doing if their is a new movie out ask him/her to go see it with u

Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

I don't really know... I seem to have the same problem. Sometimes it's not you though.. If you have nothing in common with someone, a relationship ( friendly or otherwise) won't work. It sounds to me like you need someone that will listen to you. But an important part of a friendship is to listen to them, too. Good luck, babe.

Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

Find a common interest.

For example:

Billy is (Your interest)

Bob: Hey, (Interest) is awesome!!

Billy: Really? Do you know how to...

Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

talk to people and sit with them during lunch. make jokes with them, and talk about things that they would enjoy talking about. invite them to have lunch with you, and you'd have a friend. but, this process does take at least a weak or two.

Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

The best way is to join a group with your interests, such as a physical activity (baseball, basket ball, volley ball, tennis, golf or bowling).If your interest is in reading, join a book club.

Then just be pleasant and show an interest in others when you chat and before you know it they will be asking you to join them in social activities.

Have patience and don't be so hard on yourself, everyone goes through these phases.

Good luck!

Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

Just be yourself and find people that share the same interest with you. If you like certain things for instance video games, go to a game store and just start chatting with some of the people in there. Invite them over to try out a new game or something. You can basically do that for everything.

The key to being subtle is to just relax if you are spastic people will be weirded out. Take a deep breath and then just play it cool. Have like a back to school party and invite some people that you casually know over, tell them to bring some of their friends and just talk to everyone...be a social butterfly. lol

If all else fails buy 7 cats...they will keep you company. lmao just kidding.

Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

Myspace, facebook, and AIM are popular applications that can keep you in touch with friends. You can get a myspace and a facebook. Also, you can download aim. Just start adding people that you know and would like to BECOME friends with. Start talking to them a little bit and sooner or later you can talk to them more and more. After a while, you will probably end up hanging out with lots of people. It may get peoples attention, but dont be annoying around people. Just find one person with a lot of friends to talk to and after a while, you will start to talk to all of that person's friends.

Sorry to sound pathetic but I need friends?

Stop looking so hard. I think that's the same problem we both have. IF you stop looking and learn how to enjoy not being too desperate, people will start to attract to a positive and confident people. They say if you stop searching for true friends and lovers, they will come to you when you at least expect it. It's better if you get involve where you can meet like-minded people to make friends.